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Debra Pascali-Bonaro

Is Orgasmic Birth real?

Published about 1 month ago • 2 min read

Dear Reader,

As a part of our Orgasmic Birth community, I think you know the answer to "Is Orgasmic Birth Real?" but you may enjoy reading all of the data in one place in my recent article that was published on BabyChick. You can read, comment and share the article HERE!

"We haven’t had a language for it before. People who have positive, pleasurable, joyful, loving, intimate, ecstatic, and orgasmic births often don’t tell anyone. They don’t want to make their friends feel bad about their challenging birth. Many people that experience an orgasm, or what I call a birthgasm, often never even tell their partners or friends out of shame and certainly don’t tell their midwife or doctor. When people started telling me about their birthgasm, they often admitted they had never told anyone before. It was the most expansive orgasm ever. It is a feeling of being one with the universe or divine energy moving through them as pure love. Waves of pleasure instead of pain."

As birth workers, we share a common vision: for birth to be a healthy, safe, and deeply satisfying experience. Our ultimate goal is to ensure that no one endures pain, suffering, or trauma during this transformative journey. It's disheartening to acknowledge that narratives of birth trauma and pain have become all too prevalent.

We recognize that a mother or birthing person's birth experience holds immense potential, either empowering or disempowering them as they transition into their new role as a parent. It is our collective desire to witness all new parents step into this important chapter of their lives with confidence, empowerment, and a sense of wholeness. Picture new parents radiating with the glow of their birth experiences, and cherishing the postpartum period as they bond with their precious new baby.

Excited to explore how you can support a pleasurable birth and unlock its profound benefits? Join us for an immersive masterclass that delves deep into the transformative power of pleasure as a tool for birth.

Join us for "Unlocking the Power: Supporting an Orgasmic Birth”

In this engaging and informative hour, you'll gain valuable insights, including:

  • The 3 essential tools for supporting pleasure during birth
  • Effective ways to explain the safety and effectiveness of pleasure in birth to your clients
  • Making Orgasmic Birth accessible to all

This free masterclass is your chance to be part of a movement dedicated to nurturing confidence with the healing power of pleasure. Register now to secure your spot and embark on this remarkable learning opportunity. Let's shape a future where pleasure is celebrated and birth becomes a truly respectful, empowering experience for all.

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Love, Debra

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Debra Pascali-Bonaro

Orgasmic Birth

Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, podcaster, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. Debra’s podcast, Orgasmic Birth heals barriers and opens the door to share secrets to more love and intimacy in birth and parenting. She brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! Debra is a mother, grandmother and featured expert in parenting journals and media around the world. Debra is also Co-Chair of the International Childbirth Initiative and Chair of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Initiative both of which promote safe, respectful maternity care. She is a Lamaze International childbirth educator, birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International, Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret and co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth”, Author of The Ultimate Guide To Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy and the Founder & President of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pleasurable Birth Essentials which prepares expectant mothers, fathers, and partners to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sacred nature of birth. Debra’s passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life!

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